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PARIS ELOPEMENT IDEAS

From slow mornings and warm croissants to sunset kisses — ideas for savoring every moment of your Paris elopement


Paris Elopement Ideas: How to Spend Your Day

Dear Bride (I’m pretty sure it’s you reading this)


Imagine we’re sitting down for coffee in Paris, and you’re telling me what you’ve been dreaming about for your elopement. I start throwing ideas at you, things you could do, places you could go, little moments you might not have even thought about yet.

After so many years working as a photographer and filmmaker in Paris and filming countless weddings and elopements here, I’ve seen just how different these days can be. And maybe you’re thinking your elopement is simply exchanging vows, taking some photos, and walking around Paris for an hour or two. But honestly? It can be so much more than that. It’s your wedding day, after all.

So let me just throw some ideas your way. Maybe you’ll read one and think, “Oh, I want to do that.” And then another… and suddenly you’ll have a pretty good idea of what your perfect Paris elopement day could look like.

Ideas for a Slow Paris Elopement Morning

01. Breakfast in bed

Start your wedding day slowly with breakfast in bed. If you’re staying at a hotel, you can arrange for breakfast to be delivered straight to your room. And if you’re staying in an apartment or Airbnb, we can arrange for someone to prepare and bring a beautiful breakfast to you. Or simply keep it easy: coffee, croissants, fresh fruit, and the two of you enjoying a quiet moment before the day begins.

02. Breakfast on the terrace

If your room has a balcony or terrace, take breakfast outside. Throw a blanket on the floor, bring your coffee and croissants, and stay there a little longer.
No need to make it elaborate. Sometimes the most beautiful part of the day is simply sitting together, eating something delicious and watching Paris wake up around you.

03. A candlelit bath

Take a bath before you start getting ready. Light a few candles, put on your favorite music, pour yourself a glass of champagne, and simply enjoy having nowhere else to be for a little while. It doesn’t have to be romantic in a cliché way. It can simply be a quiet moment for yourself before a very important day.


04. Write each other a letter

Before the day gets busy, write each other a letter. Tell your partner what you’re feeling, what you’re excited about, or simply what you want them to know before you say your vows. And if you love keeping little memories, start a wedding album together. Later, you can add your favorite photographs from the day, your letters, little notes, dried flowers, ticket stubs, or anything else that brings you back to this moment. Years from now, it won’t just be an album of beautiful photographs. It will be a little record of how you felt on the day you got married.

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Ideas for Paris elopement

05.Exchange a little gift

You don’t have to wait until the ceremony to exchange gifts. Make it a private moment in your room, before you get dressed or while you’re getting ready.
It can be something meaningful, something you’ve chosen for each other, or simply a tiny surprise.

06. Have a private first dance

Why wait until the reception?
Put on your song while you’re getting ready and have a little first dance in your room. No guests, no eyes pointed at you, no pressure. Just the two of you.
Or, if you’d rather, save the surprise for later and let your partner discover it during your portraits.

07. Get ready together

Getting ready doesn’t have to mean spending the whole morning in separate rooms.
Have coffee together, play music, help each other with the little details, fix a collar or a cuff, share a laugh. These ordinary moments can become some of the most beautiful footage of your day.
And when it’s time for the final touches, you can always separate for a few minutes and meet again for your first look.Take your croissants outside

08. Take your croissants outside

And if you don’t want to eat breakfast in your room, take it with you.
Pick up a couple of warm croissants from a neighborhood boulangerie and eat them right outside on a quiet street, in a little park, or on a bench somewhere you love.
There is something wonderfully Parisian about eating a still-warm croissant straight from the bakery, dressed for your wedding day, with the whole city waiting for you.

09. Breakfast at a Parisian Café

You don’t have to have breakfast at your hotel.
One of my favorite ways to experience Paris on your elopement day is to simply sit down at a beautiful café and have breakfast together.
This can happen before your ceremony, when you want to start the day slowly and soak in the atmosphere of Paris, or after your ceremony, when you can finally sit down, take a breath, and celebrate what just happened.
Order coffee, fresh croissants, maybe some eggs or a little glass of champagne, and just enjoy being married in Paris.
We can also build a café stop into your photo and video coverage, so instead of rushing from one location to another, you get to actually experience the city together.

Ways to Make Your Paris Elopement Day Your Own

01. Have a Private Ceremony


Your ceremony can be as private or as open as you want.
You can exchange your vows at one of Paris’s beautiful public locations, with the city as your backdrop. I have a separate guide to best public Paris elopement ceremony locations where I share my favorite spots and what you can expect from each one.
Or, if you want something more private, you can have your ceremony at your hotel, Airbnb, a private terrace, a garden, or another beautiful space chosen just for you.
You can have an English-speaking officiant or celebrant lead the ceremony, or keep it very simple and exchange your vows just between the two of you.
Want music? Bring in a violinist, cellist, or even just a beautiful little music box. Want your family there? Absolutely. And if they can’t be in Paris, you can put a phone on a tripod and let them join the ceremony virtually, watching the whole thing happen live from wherever they are.
You can keep it completely private, invite a few people you love, or find your own way somewhere in between. 

Your ceremony doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s, it just has to feel like yours.

02. Make Your First Look Your Own

Your first look can happen in so many different ways.
You can see each other in the morning, while you’re getting ready at your hotel. Maybe your partner waits in another room, you walk in, and that’s the first time you see each other that day.
Or you can save that moment for the ceremony itself.
Imagine arriving separately —and having your partner see you for the very first time as you walk toward your ceremony.
This version feels a little more traditional and a little more dramatic. Add a violinist or cellist playing your favorite song, and suddenly the whole moment feels like a wedding ceremony but in your own Parisian way.
Think about when you want that first look to happen and how you want it to feel. We can build the rest of your Paris elopement day around that moment.


03. Make Your Bouquet Personal


Your bouquet doesn’t have to be just beautiful, it can be personal, too.
You can choose any flowers and style you love, but you can also add a little detail that means something to you: a small photo of someone you wish could be there, a meaningful charm or medallion, a handwritten note, or even a little message attached to the flowers or written on the flowers as on this picture.
It can be something only you understand, or a detail that makes you think of someone special throughout the day. Or simply choose the bouquet you’ve always dreamed of. There’s no right or wrong here, make it yours.

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04.Make a Champagne Moment

Whether you choose a private terrace or a beautiful public location, I love the idea of having a little celebration waiting for you after your ceremony.
It could be a beautiful champagne table with chilled bottles, delicate glasses, and a few little sweet or savory bites whatever feels like you.
Or maybe champagne isn’t your thing. Have your favorite cocktail instead. A shot you’ve always wanted to take together. Your favorite wine. Or even a beautiful non-alcoholic drink there are so many elegant options now that can feel just as celebratory.
You could even turn it into a little champagne tasting, trying a few different bottles and taking your time with it.

We just got married in Paris.


That moment deserves a toast !

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05. Make Your Cake Personal

Your wedding cake can be whatever you want it to be.
It could be a tiny bento cake just for the two of you, or a beautiful multi-tiered cake if you’ve always dreamed of having a big one. It could even be a tower of croissants, your favorite dessert, or something very French that you’ve never tried before.
Add a little message on top something meaningful, funny, or completely unexpected. You could even have a surprise message prepared for your partner to discover when the cake arrives.
Choose a flavor you both love, or make the cake part of your Paris experience with something beautifully French. Think macarons, a croquembouche, or another classic French pastry.
And if you’re not really into sweets, that’s completely fine too. Your “cake” could be something savory that you both love.
Because cutting the cake isn’t really about the cake. It’s a little wedding tradition and you can make it completely yours.
Make it beautiful, make it personal, and most importantly, make it feel like a celebration.

06. Arrive in a Vintage French Car

A vintage French car can turn your elopement into a little Parisian adventure and it adds something completely different to your photos and film.
You can take a ride through Paris with a private driver, but the car can also become part of the experience even when you’re not driving. We can stop in beautiful spots, use it as part of your portraits, and create different looks with the Eiffel Tower or Parisian streets in the background.
You can even turn the car itself into part of your celebration: have your cake, breakfast, champagne, or a little picnic moment right there.
It’s beautiful, it’s very French, and most importantly, it gives your Paris elopement another little adventure to remember.

09. Take a Private Boat Ride on the Seine

If you want to experience Paris from a completely different perspective, take your elopement onto the Seine.
You can arrange a private boat and make it whatever you want it to be a relaxed lunch, an intimate dinner, a few glasses of champagne and little bites, or simply a beautiful private ride through the city.
Cruise past the Eiffel Tower, see Paris from the water, and use the journey as part of your photo and video session. You don’t have to choose between an experience and beautiful portraits you can have both.
And honestly, this is one of my personal favorite ways to experience Paris. There is something incredibly peaceful about being on the water, watching the city pass by, and seeing all those iconic places from a completely different angle.
If you ask me, Paris from the Seine is always a good idea.

09. Have a Beautiful French Lunch

Make lunch part of the experience, not just a break between locations.
You can simply reserve a beautiful table at a Parisian restaurant and enjoy an incredible French meal together. Or make it more personal with a private chef who creates a tasting menu just for you perhaps in your hotel, a private space, or another beautiful setting.
You can keep it simple or make the meal a real experience, with several courses, wine pairings, champagne, and dishes chosen especially for you.
And yes, I absolutely recommend documenting the food, too.
It might seem funny to photograph your lunch on your wedding day, but years from now, you’ll probably want to remember what you actually ate. What was on your plates? What did the table look like? Which wine did you drink? What did the glasses and tableware look like?
These little details become time capsules. They bring you back not only to what your wedding day looked like, but what it felt like.
And I love the idea of being able to tell your friends years later, “This is what we had for lunch the day we got married in Paris.”

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ABOUT ME

HI, I’M LANA, YOUR LOVE STORYTELLER

I’m Lana, a Paris-based photographer and filmmaker, and I capture both the photos and film of your elopement.

Some of the ideas in this guide are things I’ve had the chance to photograph and film myself. Others are ideas I simply think would be beautiful to experience and document on your wedding day.

I don’t provide these services myself, I’m here to give you ideas and help you imagine what your day could look like. If something catches your eye, tell me. I’ll be happy to recommend trusted vendors in Paris who can bring it to life.

And if you need a little help putting all the pieces together, I’m always happy to help.

Your elopement can be so much more than a ceremony. Let’s make it a day that feels completely like you.